Three Wise Men

A word of thanks to Ted, Stephen, and Roger

I know I am big on giving thanks and recognition to those people who have made an impact on my life. I have often sung the praises and the importance of the family support that I have always received; whether it was in my athletic endeavors, my leukemia diagnosis, or just living life, I have always had a strong support system.

There are three individuals however who have also played a very important role in who I have become. I initially wanted to talk about their impact on my athletic life, but looking back, at least two of men also played a key role in helping mold and shape the total person that became Steve Brown. Two of these men were coaches and teachers of mine at Haverford High School in Havertown Pennsylvania. The third is a true fitness expert – no – fitness genius that I had the pleasure of training with for a couple of years in the mid 1980s in Bryn Mawr Pennsylvania. Education and fitness have always been my hot buttons it’s pretty logical that I feel ties to these three people so many years later.

Ted Keyser coached me in soccer and volleyball at Haverford. Ted, or “TK” as he was known by all, did not look particularly  intimidating. He was (is) very slight in stature with a military buzz hair cut. I knew of Ted before I actually met him. Student athletes either respected the hell out of the man, or detested and rejected everything that he was trying to do. Ted had a brilliant and successful coaching career at Haverford. Haverford boys volleyball became synonymous with “State Champions”. And his soccer teams were a powerhouse year after year. TK got these results by turning boys into men and forced them to take ownership for their actions. He ruled with a hard disciplinarian approach. There were some soccer practices that didn’t even involve the use of a ball and consisted of nothing but conditioning. But as tough as he was, he was and I’m sure still is, a good and respectful man. I always wanted to do right by TK. If you kept your nose clean, and gave 110% on and off the field, TK liked you. And TK liking you was a always good thing. The funny thing is, to this day I think of him often when I am racing and training. I think of the principles and the work ethic that he instilled in us. I think about two words that he used to use all the time – “intestinal fortitude” when things get a little tough. Soccer went on to play a key role for me in college and beyond; thanks to Ted Keyser.

Steve Juenger was my high school basketball coach. Although he was just as successful as Ted Keyser, his approach was from the opposite end of the spectrum. Mr. Juenger was the gentleman coach and really didn’t believe in pushing his athletes too far. Instead he was a purest and a perfectionist who believed that shooting 100 foul shots everyday served you much better than doing conditioning drills. It was always a tough transition for those of us who played soccer and basketball. Since basketball followed soccer in the year, we were all so amped up from so much physical conditioning with TK that it was hard to slow the pace down and shift gears for Steve Juenger. I even remember asking Mr. Juenger if it would be Ok if we ran some suicide sprints after practice. (Yes, I was a little “off” back then as well). But the thing that I took away from Mr. Juenger was how to be a good person. Sportsmanship and conduct always came first in his book. And that is something else that I practice and preach every day. Steve Juenger was one of the first true ambassadors of good karma in my athletic career. Sadly we lost Mr. Juenger a few years back but his legacy lives large and Haverford has since named their gym after him.

And then we have Roger Schwab. I will have to choose my words wisely because according to Roger, there is no such thing as a fitness “guru”, but he is as close as you’re going to get without using that term. Roger is the owner and founder of Main Line Health and Fitness, originally known as Main Line Nautilus. (www.mlhf.com)  I trained at Main Line for a few years in the mid 1980s. Roger’s resume is too decorated for me to do it any justice in this brief post. I encourage you to visit their website and read more about their organization and the man behind it. Roger in a true health and fitness pioneer and was one of the first people to preach the importance of tying “health” and “fitness” together. He hires staff that is committed to the overall health of each and every single member. He was published in the field of women’s health and fitness before most other “experts” were deriving any difference between the needs of men and women. It was at Roger’s gym that I began to develop a keen interest in exercise physiology and wanted to learn more about the body and how it responded to the stresses of training. It was Roger’s gym that lit the spark in me to go out and receive certifications in personal training and weight room conditioning. Main Line poured a solid foundation of strength and aerobic conditioning principles that I continue to pull from all the time. And when someone asks my opinion on something related to these subjects, I find myself recalling what Roger would say, including one of his classic lines, “You can gen strong and fit just by lifting a sack of rocks if you do it the right way”. Roger and his buddy Pat Croce gave birth to what became the sports medicine industry.

So, there you have it. I just wanted to give a quick nod to three wise men who I consider very instrumental in the development of – me.

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Big Footprints

I ran a local 5k this morning. It’s been a long time since I have run a stand alone short  race like that. It was a benefit for the late Brad Schoener, the Upper Darby band director who we lost in March and I have written about previously. It was a pretty fun course with a couple of nice climbs and some cross country elements to it. I was actually able to roll out of bed and walk to the start of the race! More important than the race itself was the cause for which we ran. A guy like Brad Schoener left a massive footprint in this world while he was here. He crammed a week’s worth of living into every day of his life and touched so many people.

And of course we have the passing of another giant … Gary Papa. I never had the pleasure of meeting Gary personally but was I introduced to him via email by another friend and co-worker of Gary’s at 6 ABC. We were able to exchange a few emails over the last year or so where we discussed disease, cancer, survivorship, and strength. It’s obvious by the reaction to his passing that Gary is another guy who left behind a huge footprint. Gary’s infectious smile and enthusiasm made him a daily part of our lives. I think most people felt as though Gary was a part of their family.

I think often about my own personal footprint. I think it’s what drives me to care and always try to do the right thing. Many many years from now I want to be remembered as having made a difference – somewhere.

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My Cause and Thank You

Last night I was honored by the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society as their Team in Training “Volunteer of the Year”. I have to say that the concept of receiving this award completely took my breath away. For many years I have been a big advocate of tying athletics with charitable causes. I have done events like the American Cancer Society’s and the MS rides for years. They started out simply as fun and cool ways to do events.

Initially I really didn’t have too many personal connections with any of the causes that I participated in but over time, I developed many. That made the events that much more meaningful. But then on February 24, 2006 I was given a whole new reason to tie athletics with a cause and a better understanding of why we do these things. On that Friday afternoon in February, sitting in the office of an oncologist that I had known for one all of week, I was given a cause I can call MY OWN … My very own personal diagnosis of chronic lymphocytic leukemia – yeah me !

It was a cause that would forever change me and it wouldn’t take long to realize that it changed me for the better. It’s a cause that the more I sink my teeth into it, the healthier I would be, as would hundreds of thousands of others, and the longer I would live. How powerful of a motivator is that ? It’s like controlling your own destiny.

Oh and by the way, not only do I get be healthier and to live longer, I get to spend time talking, teaching, mentoring, and coaching beginner triathletes and enriching their lives as well. That’s not volunteer work – that’s paradise. So, becoming involved with TNT within days of my diagnosis required absolutely no thought at all. That direction was chosen for me.

The people that I have met along the way have been unbelievable. Survivors …… family of survivors, athletes, coaches, so many other volunteers all working towards a common goal. I get so much out of doing what I do. Thant’s why I feel like I should be paying someone for what I do…. Not being rewarded for it.

LLS and TNT really are like extended family to me…. My fellow coaches and I clown around like brothers and really enjoy each other’s company. Our Campaign Coordinators are the sisters we like to pick on but heavily lean on, and Executive Directors are the parental figures that we try to hide all of our antics from. In all seriousness, family is what keeps me going everyday and I’m proud to be a part of this family.

It’s with everything within me that I thank everyone very sincerely for last night’s recognition. And I look forward to many many more years and miles and races.

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The Power of a Thought

Some powerful words on dreaming and believing ….

“The unreal is more powerful than the real, because nothing is as perfect as you can imagine it. It’s only intangible ideas, concepts, beliefs, fantasies that last. Stone crumbles. Wood rots. People, well, they die. But things as fragile as a thought, a dream, a legend, they can go on and on.” …
Chuck Palahniuk – American freelance Journalist, Satirist and Novelist.

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Blazeman

For those who are unaware of his legacy, (which is most of the FOX 29 blog community), I would like to introduce you guys to a true warrior in every respect. I would not be doing you justice if I didn’t give you the chance to learn of this man and his mission.

Jon Blais, a.k.a. Blazeman was diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, (ALS, or Lou Gehrig’s Disease) in May of 2005 and won the hearts of millions five months later when he became the first ALS patient to race and finish the grueling World Championship Ironman Triathlon in Kona, Hawaii while being filmed by NBC Sports. Jon’s race became more than a race. Jon’s race symbolized not only his battle with ALS but also the battles of generations before him and generations to follow. Jon knew just attempting the ironman would make a statement to his disease and to everyone watching… actually finishing the race would make a statement to the world. Well Jon finished that race. Jon finished that race with more style, class, dignity, and honor than I can even attempt to explain.

The following year, the disease had advanced to the point of forcing Jon to watch the 2006 race confined to a wheelchair. From his chair he watched and cheered his friends who were racing in his honor and who were racing to continue to raise awareness for Blazeman’s cause. And on May 27th, 2007, the triathlon community and mankind as a whole lost a true hero as Jon passed away at the age of 35. In two short years he became a powerful voice using the sport he loved to help promote awareness and raise funds to find a cure for his disease through The Blazeman Foundation.

Besides his long time passion for the sport of triathlon, Jon was also an avid mountain climber, hiker, and a gifted and insightful writer. He took his gifts into the classroom where, as a teacher, he inspired many special needs students to reach their potential and realize their dreams.

Like many others, I first learned of Jon and his cause while watching the NBC telecast of the Ironman triathlon. Although I never had the opportunity to meet Jon personally, I did have the honor and pleasure of corresponding with Jon and his support crew and family. I have since developed a fond friendship with his parents and am also proud to call myself a “Blazeman Warrior”. We can all rest assured that Jon’s efforts will continue on and thrive with the same passion and commitment that Jon intended.

Following is a message from Jon:

“Understand that this is not a dress rehearsal. This is it… your life. Face your fears and live your dreams. Take it all in. Yes, every chance you get.

And by all means, whatever you do…Get it on film”.… Jon Blais

For more information on Jon and his mission, visit www.alswarriorpoet.com and www.waronals.com

 

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From Where I Sit

I am in a pretty good place; physically, mentally, emotionally, however you would like to measure “good place”, I think I am there. My health is now excellent, but my diagnosis left me with a keen awareness of and an appreciation for a lot of things that I may have missed prior to February 24th, 2006. I was reminded of a lot of things last week when I attended a Cancer Survivors Celebration Day which was held at the local hospital where I had been treated. It is an annual celebration with several speakers including docs, survivors, and even a comedian. (Last year I was even one of the honored survivor speakers.) The odd thing is that the evening started with an informal meet and greet in which tables with refreshments lined the entire chemotherapy and radiation treatment and waiting areas.

Now, you have to try to understand the feeling one gets walking into a chemo treatment center. I always tried to keep things as light as possible. I loved my nurses and when I went through treatment (which, if I did the math right, was 40 sessions over a two year period) I sort of felt as if it was my job to walk in there with as much energy and excitement that I could find. Part of it was done in fun just to drive the nurses a little crazy, and part of it was just my way of dealing. I remember one particular session where I arrived for my treatment before they had opened the doors for the day. This was never unusual for me as I need to be early for everything. But I was so amped up that morning that the reception opened the blind covering their window, and quickly closed it saying to the staff, “Steve’s here already, who wants him”? And then we all had a laugh once they let me in. Sometimes my energy at 8 a.m. was a little over the top for those just starting their long work day.

So, getting back to my very long winded point … remember … that Cancers Survivors Celebration Day? Yes, so the refreshments lined the treatment and waiting areas. And I was getting such a strange feeling trying to reconcile where we were. Initially I found myself thinking, “Can’t we find a better place to do this?… Do we have to be so close to the rooms and chairs where the poison is administered to so many people in an effort to kill their respective cancers”?

But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that it was the perfect place to kick off the evening’s program. Survivors and their families got the chance to mingle and celebrate in the very area where they had all waged war – and won. It was our own little version of Iwo Jima. We were all Marines and were taking pride in raising our survivor flag in the soil of the treatment center.

The rest of the evening proved to be quite moving and inspiring as well. It is encouraging to see how far cancer remission and cure rates have come over the last few decades. We are winning the war on cancer. There are still many battles yet to come, but we have so many of these things on the run. The work we are doing is working … all of the donations, and grants, and dedication, and research – this work all saves lives. Don’t ever think for a minute that this stuff isn’t making a difference. It is.

And from where I sit, that’s a good thing.

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Now You Know

20 random and dumb facts about me. Not that you asked ….. but these popped into my head during my run and a few of them made me chuckle so thought I would share..

1) My cat is named after the periodic element symbol for IRON (fe) As in IRONMAN

2) In the 80’s one of my passions was skydiving

3) I was a Presbyterian, male, business major in a college that was predominately female, catholic, and specialized in education (logical, right ?)

4) If I had my way, bicycles would be the universally accepted and preferred method of commuting

5) I’ll eat almost anything that isn’t moving except for onions and brussell sprouts

6) I thoroughly and wholeheartedly believe that one person can make a difference

7) I can do absolutely NOTHING and still have the time of my life
8) I spent my high school and college summers as a camp counselor. I love kids …. Probably because I never stopped being one

9) I love starting a conversation with a complete stranger

10) I will somehow try to make the most mundane and ridiculous situation funny – even at my own expense

11) Monetary possessions mean nothing to me – and I cannot relate to anyone who flaunts what they have

12) I think I was supposed to play a musical instrument but must have been absent that day for sign ups

13) Friendships are important to me and I still talk to guys I knew in kindergarten

14) I’m not crazy about ladders

15) I am crazy about Marronnes Pizza in Ardmore

16) Yes, I often ran home from chemotherapy treatments

17) I think you can tell a lot about a person in the way they interact with animals

18) I think this society has become so electronic, that some people have completely forgotten how to effectively and properly communicate

19) We need more vacation in this country

20) Too many people are too repressed and walk around their entire lives not saying something to someone that they really want to – and should

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An Ironman for an Officer

In January 2002, Upper Darby police officer Dennis McNamara was shot and killed while on duty. McNamara became the first officer killed in the line of duty in the town of Upper Darby. McNamara was a loving father, husband, musician, runner, good cop, and good man.

When I saw the story on the news, I was hit hard. McNamara, was 43 at the time, grew up in Greater Philadelphia, had two children and was an avid fitness enthusiast and runner who spoke often about wanting to someday run a marathon. I saw many similarities between Dennis McNamara and myself and I felt the need to help. I decided to do something that I thought Dennis might have appreciated while helping out the family. I immediately reached out to a couple of buddies in the police department and to McNamara’s family and pitched my plan. It was my goal to race Ironman USA Lake Placid in July of 2002 and use my participation in the event to raise awareness of the tragic McNamara shooting, and raise funds for the family. (Ironman = 2.4 mile swim, 112 mile bike, and 26.2 mile run).

I contacted the race management team at Ironman USA to request that I be assigned a specific bib number: Officer McNamara’s badge number 121. The race officials were very open and receptive to the idea, as was the entire Upper Darby Police force who provided me with UDPD workout clothes, and an open invitation to train in their gym facility at the station. The project gathered a lot of steam and publicity and I received well wishes from police officers, and even the widows of officers from all around the country and as far away as Canada.

The race itself proved to be very challenging, as ironman usually does. Harsh rains and flooding made this one particularly tough. But Dennis McNamara was tough, and I hoped to be too that day. It poured rain off and on most of the race. At times my running shoes felt like 20 pound sand bags strapped to my feet. It was a long and tiring day, but I got through it. And all of the pain and rained soaked discomfort disappeared as I crossed the street and approached the Olympic speed skating oval which serves as the race’s finish line. Standing there in the pouring rain, awaiting my arrival, were two Lake Placid police officers. These men were total strangers to me. I glanced up and through the rain saw them huddled together and talking. As I drew closer I heard one say, “Yes, that’s him …. Number 121 …. That’s the guy for McNamara from Philly”. With that, both men stood at attention, saluted me, and thanked me for what I had done. The emotion of the race, the cause, and the site of the Lake Placid cops took me over and I completely lost it.

As if that wasn’t enough, as I entered the Oval, there stood my own two daughters ready to grab my hand and run me home across the finish line as they had in races past and in races yet to come. It was a good day.

Shorty after the race, that need to do something still wasn’t completely satisfied. Given the fact that Dennis McNamara was a musician, I wrote a song from the perspective of a 10 year old that lost her dad. I recruited my buddy Scott McClatchy and told him that I wanted to do something with the song and he took it from there. Scott made a couple of calls and booked one of the best studios in NYC and the talented producer M. Hans Liebert who, just finishing up a project with James Taylor, graciously donated his time, musicians, and resources. When we recorded the song, we did nothing with it other than present it to Diane McNamara in honor and respect for her fallen hero.

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Growing Tentacles

Hello world. Hmmmm, my typing skills are even more pathetic at this hour! Didn’t think that was even possible. Anyway, I wanted to tell you about a connection I made the other day and the very cool way that I will be able to leverage that meeting into doing something awesome on many levels.

Many of you know that soccer was my chocolate before I turned to multisport racing and training. I was an extremely high spirited and eager goalkeeper who loved the game and had hopes of playing professionally. Which is a gross understatement but that’s not what I’m talking about today. One of the goalkeepers that I looked up to at the time was a guy named Shep Messing. (NY Cosmos fame – Google him). In recent years our orbits have aligned somewhat and we have become friendly. SO….. the other day, I received the following email from Shep:

big man!

First of all, I never got to thank you for sending me the blog you wrote referencing our connection….well done for everything you continue to do. A fellow goalkeeper is now facing a challenge. He’s one of the top quality human beings I’ve met….went to one of my camps when he was 10, was a keeper in college and then played professionally in Zimbabwe before his life took an unusual turn….and I’ve been there for him and for his charitable causes over the last few years. If you have the time, I know he’d appreciate hearing from a fellow keeper, especially you…his name is Ethan Zohn.

thanks pal,

Shep

So, of course I reach out to the guy right away. Ethan was recently diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Disease and we started the first of many conversations on the topics of treatments, nutrition, fitness, soccer, positive thinking, etc. I also learned that Ethan runs an organization called Grass Root Soccer which provides funding for AIDS/HIV education for children of Africa. His organization is also putting a fund raising team together to race the New York City Marathon and raise funds and awareness for his cause. It was a no brainer decision when Ethan invited me to join his mission. I couldn’t say NO to something like that. And the timing works out well. The race will be held on 11/1 and that date sits comfortably in between an ultra distance triathlon and the Philadelphia Marathon on my race calendar.

So on November 1, Ethan and I and our team will race the NYC Marathon for all the right reasons. In the meantime, we need to make sure we get Ethan healthy and kick the hell out of his Hodgkin’s Disease – which I know he will do. One must admire a guy like Ethan who, while trying to wrap his head and hands around his own very recent diagnosis, remains busy with his charitable causes and missions.

You will be hearing much more on this effort, but I was pretty stoked about it and wanted to share. You can learn more about Ethan at www.ezohn.com If the name sounds familiar, Ethan was also the winner of SURVIVOR – Africa. He has many irons in his fire as well. I think that’s why we hit it off.

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Everyone is Somebody to Someone

When I was diagnosed with leukemia in February of 2006, I couldn’t believe the amount of support that I received from all over the place. I received emails and phone calls from friends of friends of friends wishing me a speedy recovery and good spirits. I was extremely touched by the number of people who found me and took the time to reach out to me. I remember expressing this to a triathlon buddy and he simply said, “you have no idea how long your tentacles are, do you”? Well, I really didn’t know at the time but what I did know was how good that support made me feel. My brother in law was teaching in Philadelphia at the time and when he asked his students to keep me in their prayers, they also decided to create get well cards for me. I have never met any of these kids, but you can bet the house that I will have those cards forever. Just knowing that people were in my corner gave me a lot of mental and emotional strength, and it also confirmed my belief that there are a lot of really good people out there in the world who would offer their support to a stranger.

There is a member of our FOX29 blog community who has recently suffered a little health setback. In the short time that I have known this gentleman, I have learned that he is an incredibly insightful, appreciative, soulful, and compassionate human being. And I know he is reading this, although he will probably choose to sit back quietly and not comment. I do want him to know however, that his fight is our collective fight…That his battle is our battle and no less significant than someone else’s. Although the journey ahead may feel dark and turbulent at times, giving up is not an option my friend. You are not alone …. God bless you as well.

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